well i hard wired the connector and I got 12v off the battery with the engine off and I got 14.5v with it on so the regulator is working but I still found the battery going low (i test it by seeing how fast the starter motor turns before and after the ride), I checked the fuses and they are all 15a and 20a which is probably what caused the connector to melt but I still must have a short somewhere. It does not matter now because the starter switch is not working so I can not get it going till I fix it.